I am positiveMarried at First Sightseason 18’sEmem Obotis moving too fast in her new engagement toBrandon Williamsamid her ex - husband Ikechi Ojoré’s"plug and play"theory . 34 - class - sure-enough Emem had a tumultuous marriage ceremony with Ikechi upon arriving back to Chicago from their honeymoon . I watched Emem ’s unmediated dash of communication cause fear with Ikechi , who desire Emem to be less"aggressive"and get to know him more organically . To me , Emem had a hard time find out what Ikechi need , while Ikechi became so closed off by Emem , that he react ill .
While I do n’t think Ikechi ’s behavior and verbal bashing of Emem was okay by any stretch , I do thinkhe had the right intuition about Emem having a one - caterpillar track mind . After Ikechi and Emem hold their decision to get a divorce , Emem was out on a appointment within days with a man she knew from middle school , Brandon . Within a calendar week , they were in love and Brandon proposed . Their prompt relationshiphas raised many red flagsfor me , and I do n’t think Emem is being wise .
Emem & Brandon Are Both Coming Off Divorces
Along With Other Red Flags
Emem and Brandon reconnected while they were both snuff it through divorcement . Brandon had been with his wife for 10 years , and had two children with her . Brandon ’s divorce was not finalized when he nominate to Emem , and her divorce was not prescribed yet either . Instead of rent the metre to get to know each other , they moved at lightening speed , which I sense is young and irresponsible . Moreover , Brandon made it seem like his kids were a non - factor in their kinship , as he attest that he wanted to have kid with Emem .
Moreover , I think Brandon love - bombed Emem , and is endeavour to insulate her .
" I wanna heal all them wounds . "
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" We keep all the squares out our round . "
Other points Brandon made in front of Emem ’s casting mates , Karla Juarez and Camille Parsons were concerning . He order he had no luminance in his life until he met Emem , which to me and Karla and Camille was wholly problematic .
" I ’m sorry , but he has to have more light at the remainder of the burrow than her , " Karla smash .
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I am not buying Brandon ’s nice guy theatrical role . He may have a steady and admirable task as a Firefighter Lieutenant , but he is derive off way too strong . I consider Emem is disillusioned by Brandon ’s hope of fixing her and doing right by her , that she does not see how outrageous the whole situation is .
Emem is not showcasing her smart and responsible for side in her avocation of Brandon , and is discount any sentiency of world in an effort to show off she ’s gotten what she wanted .
Emem & Brandon Have Not Spent Enough Time Getting To Know Each Other
They’ve Moved Too Fast
TheMarried at First Sightseason 18 spoiler given during the time of year 18 reunification , was thatEmem and Brandon are still together . However , Emem relayed that they had many ups and down feather , and I call up that ’s due to them not actually cognise each other upon getting engaged . Emem and Brandon move too tight , and that ’s why I consider they encountered growing pains . The making love bombing , unrealistic life blending , and neglect for the status of their man and wife is unsavory to me . I do n’t remember the yoke will last , and that their red flag relationship will run them into the dry land .
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Emem Proved Ikechi Right
She Wants A “Plug & Play” Husband
I now believe Ikechi call it . When he and Emem were going through the end of their marriage , Ikechi relayed that he thought Emem wanted a married man , and it did n’t matter who it was as long as they wanted marriage ceremony .
Later , he clarified Emem as want a"plug and play"husband , which I agree with .
Through Emem ’s swift and reckless battle , she has attest that she just wants to be a married woman , and is uncoerced to ignore everything else . While I finger for Emem ’s need to be bonk , she is too grown to be going about her love life in this style . Emem proved Ikechi correct , and I call back Emem moved too fast , and ignored all the red flag present with Brandon in guild to be a married charwoman .
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